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Managing Competition Nerves and Anxiety

Why you freeze up at a competition and what to do about it: breathing, routines, and focus to get nerves and blanking out under control.

Stalwijs
Updated June 2, 2026

At home, you ride your test flawlessly, but the moment the judge is watching, your mind goes blank and your body stops doing what you ask. That's performance anxiety, and among competition riders it's more the rule than the exception. This guide explains where that pressure comes from and what you can concretely do about it.

Why You Freeze Up at a Competition

Nerves before a competition are a normal stress response. Your body prepares itself for effort: heart rate up, breathing high in the chest, muscles tight. A bit of that is useful — it sharpens you. Too much of it backfires: your fine motor control deteriorates, your field of view narrows, and your working memory falters. That last part explains the dreaded blank-out, where halfway through the test you no longer know which letter comes next.

Riding adds something other sports don't have: your partner feels it. Horses are prey animals and pick up tension through your posture, your breath, and your hands. A rider who sits stiff in the saddle and holds their breath unintentionally sends the horse an unsettling signal. The animal becomes more reactive, you get further thrown off, and the two of you amplify each other's nerves. So learning to regulate your own tension also helps the horse.

Preparation Does Most of the Work

Most competition nerves don't arise on the day itself, but in the weeks before it — through poor preparation or steps that are too big. That's where there's the most to gain.

  • Train under mild pressure. Ask a few people to come watch a training session, or ride your test once for your instructor as if it were the competition. The more often you practice with spectators, the less special the judge will feel.
  • Know your test by heart, not from the sheet. Walk the test on foot, visualize every transition, ride it through in your mind. A test that's in your body is one you're less likely to lose if you blank out.
  • Start at the right level. A lot of performance anxiety comes from entering just a bit too high. If you're not yet solid in a class, every test feels like an exam. Read When to Move Up a Class before you move up.
  • Make the day predictable. Pack your things the evening before, plan generous travel time, and make sure you don't arrive rushed. Time pressure stacks on top of competition nerves. See What to Bring to a Competition for a packing list.

A Fixed Routine as an Anchor

Top riders do roughly the same thing at every competition, in the same order. That repetition gives you something to hold on to: your mind knows what's coming and doesn't have to think it through. The content matters less than the consistency.

Moment What a Routine Can Look Like
The evening before Things ready, run through the test once more, early to bed
Arrival Fixed order: unload the horse, check out the grounds, register
Warm-up The same exercises in the same order, at your own pace
Just before the start A short breathing or focus exercise you always do
Afterward Care for the horse first, only look at the result after that

Build your routine during training, not just at the competition. Something you've done ten times at home works under pressure; something you try for the first time doesn't.

What Works in the Moment Itself

If you're standing in the ring with shaking knees, a few small things help take your body out of its highest gear.

  • Breathe out slowly, longer than you breathe in. A long exhale slows the stress response. Two or three deliberate exhales before you ride in often already help.
  • Focus on one thing at a time. Not "I have to ride the whole test well," but "now the corner, then the transition at C." A narrowed brain can handle one task, not ten.
  • Look where you want to go. Looking ahead to your next point keeps your posture open and your horse in front of you. Looking down or at the judge does the opposite.
  • Don't lose the reins to nerves. Clenching sends your horse the wrong signal. Let your hands stay soft and keep breathing.

If you do blank out and momentarily lose track of where you are, in most tests you're allowed to ask the judge for help. At KNHS competitions, you're allowed to have the test called out to you (prompting); that usually costs a small deduction, but it lets you finish the test instead of stopping. The exact rules are set out in the KNHS competition regulations and differ by discipline and class.

Keeping Your Expectations in Check

Performance anxiety feeds on excessive demands. Anyone who sees every start as a test of their own worth makes the pressure bigger than it is. A few thinking traps that often play a role:

  • Everyone is watching me. In practice, the audience mostly pays attention to their own rider and horse. Your mistake stands out less than it feels like it does.
  • One bad test is a disaster. A competition is a single measurement, not a final verdict. Even experienced riders regularly ride a test that doesn't go well.
  • It has to happen today. A long-term goal — riding better over a season — takes the pressure off that one day.

Set yourself a goal that's about your own riding ("keep breathing smoothly," "calm transitions") instead of about the result. You have influence over that yourself; over the judge's verdict only to a limited extent.

When Extra Support Makes Sense

Healthy nerves are part of the sport and ease off as you compete more. But if anxiety stops you from entering at all, you get real panic symptoms such as hyperventilation before every competition, or you consistently freeze despite good preparation, that's a different matter. Talk to your instructor first — sometimes it's down to the level or the horse. If that doesn't help, a sports psychologist or mental coach can work with you specifically on competition nerves. For persistent or severe symptoms, your general practitioner is the right person to see.

In Short

Competition nerves are normal and largely manageable. Most of the work lies in preparation: train under mild pressure, know your test by heart, and start at the right level. Build a fixed routine, and in the moment itself use your breathing and one point to focus on. Keep your expectations realistic, and focus on your own riding instead of the result. If the anxiety keeps paralyzing you, bring in your instructor and, if needed, a sports psychologist.


See also: When to Move Up a Class · Horse Show Packing Checklist · Level: Competing More Seriously

Compiled from public professional sources. For diagnosis, dosage or legal advice, a professional is the right source. Translated from the Dutch original.